Being Nice Is Oppressive

Stop using it as an excuse to accept mediocrity

If you got past the title then welcome! I promise this isn’t a rant about self-pity and lack of self awareness…

Just kidding — I couldn’t possibly be the judge of that.

This article is about how the desire to be nice is oppressive. I will give you three examples:

1 — Yes Amanda, that dress…



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Andrea Arias

Architectural practitioner on my way to licensure. In a quest to find my voice in a noisy world.